I sit here on a Saturday afternoon after I’ve been sitting in my room pretty much all day trying to catch up on the rest I missed last week and get ahead for school work because next week is going to be a rough one. Anyway, as I sit here and reflect (as most introverts do a lot) I realize how fortunate I am to have the life that I created for myself. However, I did not do this alone. My parents were a huge part of my life, right from the beginning, obviously. They always supported me in anything I wanted to do and gave me advice along the way of what they thought would be the best choice, but in the end it was ultimately my choice and even if I didn’t do what they thought was best they were always there. It’s kind of funny because I can remember they were always there to catch me if I fell, but one day I told them just to let me fall flat on my face every once and a while, let me make the wrong decision and see what the consequences were. So just as they always had, they supported me in this. After making some decision, which I assume they knew were not the greatest, I fell, and I fell hard. I guess what I’m saying is that I’m extremely grateful to have the parents I have because they respect my wishes no matter what they are. If I have kids, and I can be half of what my parents were to me then I’d say I would be successful. I’m sure it wasn’t easy for them supporting me even when they knew it was the “wrong” decision but they did it and I am grateful because I don’t think I would have turned out as the person I am today without them.
I would assume my sister will one day, if she doesn’t already, say the same thing about our parents. Just like most siblings we fought about stupid things a lot when we were younger. We still argue about silly things, but at the end of the day I love her and I wouldn’t ask for any other sister because she’s the best one in the world. It scares me whenever I come home because she is growing up super fast. I only get to come home about three times a year and she matures more and more every time. She recently had aspirations of attending the Air Force Academy, which is a surprise but I’m proud of her for shooting high on a college just as I did. As her brother, and I like to think best friend, I am super proud of her, so I can only imagine how my parents must feel.
I can’t imagine having a better family then the one I was so fortunate to be born into.
Onto Academy things.
This semester has been one of the most successful, fun, and fulfilling for me. Midterm was just this past week and my midterm GPA is a 3.65, which is a huge jump from the usual 3.0. I think it was mostly because I am taking all technical classes that relate to civil engineering. One would think that it would be harder; quite frankly, I am pretty bad at humanities so to take classes that all have math in them is a relief. Not to mention I have the best teachers I have ever had. Usually I could complain about one teacher but that is not the case this semester. Needless to say I love all my classes and all my teachers.
I guess this blog comes down to the fact that I love life right now, my family, my friends (here and back home), my school, and countless other things that I can’t think of right now. If you have any questions about being here, just need talk to someone, or want to talk about music (I’ve recently come upon some good stuff) shoot me an email at Spencer.M.Zwenger@uscga.edu.
Seriously email me.
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